Marriage and Birthday of my Son- An Extraordinary Story
My name is Marek and I come
from Poland. I live there in the city of Gdańsk. Since 2004 I am a member of a Neocatechumenal Way in my city.
Since a long time the Lord has been showing
me how much He cares of me, how He fights for me and that He wants for me all
the best. I see this in a plenty of facts. After all, He wants a full life for
each of us now and here, in this
time. He loves each of us separately and individually. He would give His life
on a cross for me, even if I was the
only man on the earth. I realized that everything He allows to happen, even undesired and unpleasant events
(from our point of view), He uses to bring us back to Him, so that we can experience Him (and without His knowledge
even a single hair of our head cannot fall to the ground). The problem is
related rather to our perception. We often think we know better than Him what is better for us.
I
would like to share with you in this testimony several extraordinary facts,
related mainly to birthday of my son
– Antoni, and to my marriage with my wife – Agnieszka:
1.)
Antoni was
born on the 1st Friday, on the 7th of October 2011. It
was around 5:15 pm, exactly 300 days
(counted as 24 hours), with an accuracy of one hour, after entering by us a
sacramental marriage. One can ask what strange is here. It is in the fact that,
the most recently before his
birthday, I have executed a counter counting a time elapsed since our wedding ceremony on the 291st day and 5 hours
after it took place. And I thought then that Antoni would be born when the counter shown exactly 300
days! And this is what happened () (and my wife was expected to
bear Antoni two weeks later).
2.) My mother-in-law noticed that day that her alarm
clock has stopped on 5 am. She told that after having noticed that she somehow knew that her daughter will be
bearing a son at 5 pm.
3.)
Certainly, we
worried before the childbirth that I could be at work on this unknown day. Fortunately, I was that at home. I have planned
my holidays one year ago and their ending felt just on that Friday! How should I know this before?
4.) We call Holy Mary in our common prayers „Queen of
the Holy Rosary, pray for us”. We decided
to travel to Mexico on our honey moon. We wanted to ask Virgin Mary of
Guadalupe to take care of us (we
married on the 11th of December, so on the Feast of Her holiday). By
the way, Pope John Paul the Second
begun his pontificate with coming to Her too. His first pilgrimage (in 1979)
was to Mexico. Her Miraculous Image, not painted by a human hand, is located in Basilica of Guadalupe (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Our_Lady_of_Guadalupe).
It is amazing that the Friday, our
son was born, was the Feast of Our Lady of the Rosary. It could not be just a coincidence! I am also a very happy
man because of a similar fact – I had a grace to be born on the 15th of August (1980), so on the Feast of
Her Assumption. According to the name
of our son, some time ago I have found an information that, the most probably,
the birthday of St. Anthony of Padua
(so of the patron of our son) is also on the 15th of August ()
5.)
My father has
noticed that the 7th of October 2011 was yet another holiday.
According to our polish calendar it was the Name Day of Marek ()
(in general, I do not celebrate my
Name Days, but if I in future will
do, I know now on what date). Antoni is a gift, but undoubtedly every child is a gift from God. However, I have
associated this recently with some fact. When Agnieszka has been pregnant, we had a grace that
two members of charismatic movement prayed
over us. I have heard then from one of them those words: „this child is a gift
from God to you”. It is amazing that
God has chosen a date of our mundane holiday to offer us His gift – and
it was His Name Day gift )
6.)
A doctor
examining my wife in a hospital was so amazed that she examined her twice. She just could not believe that with such a gape
Agnieszka has not born our son yet. We arrived at the hospital at 4:4o pm.
Childbirth was natural and extremely fast. It lasted about 10 to 15 minutes, after Agnieszka was transported to a
proper room. And this is what we prayed for – for efficient and painless
childbirth. I am glad that my wife does not have to strain a lot. She had a laser eyesight correction (from a rather
big defect), and so I simply wondered about her sight.
7.)
We were
driving to the hospital in rush hours (the streets were full of traffic jams).
While we were praying for arriving
without problems or getting stuck in jams, an extraordinary thing has happened.
Suddenly, we saw that cars in front of us started to part (forming a temporary tunnel) because ...a police car with the siren
blaring has been driving out from behind of us !!! Amazing !!! I only regret I was not courageous enough to follow the
police and drive in this tunnel.
Nevertheless, thanks God, we managed to arrive on time (we left home at 4: oo
pm and the doctor informed us, that
if we had been late about 10 minutes, Agnieszka would born our son in our car).
I
also wanted to summarize some amazing facts related to our engagement and
marriage:
1.)
The age
difference between me and my wife is exactly three years and six months. While
we were engaged, the Lord has given us the following prophecy: „heaven remained
shut for three years and six months
” (The Gospel of Luke 4, 25). I have read this that way: after such a period of
time (according to our mundane time calculation), God has answered my prayers
for a wife for me – for this was the period of time I have been living in the
world existing without her. And
again, someone can ask what extraordinary is there. It is here: exactly one day after we informed about this prophecy our
friends (Missionary Sisters of Blood of Christ) – it was on some Monday – He repeated it. I meant that God repeated the
same Word but in other configuration of readings in liturgical calendar!
Indeed, the Word of God is ALIVE!!!
2.)
I have met
my wife by ...telephone!!! I have been calling different persons for about half
an hour, redirected from friends and
their friends „from Annas to Caiaphas”, because I tried to resell a ticket for a pilgrimage to Prague
(meeting with Pope), until I finally called my future wife.
3.) It looks that Agnieszka came to Prague
purposefully. Pope Benedict the XVI was speaking Italian there. She has studied Italian philology. So it happened that
the group of pilgrims, she was the
member of, did not have a translator, so the task of translating the Pope’s
speech from Italian to Polish was performed by her )
4.)
This is the
way God has chosen to make an appointment for us – I have asked Agnieszka to
translate me a movie about St. Paul Apostle from Italian to Polish. I was
unable to find its Polish subtitles
for over a year. Finally, I have forgotten about it (until the time has come)).
5.)
All those
facts about our unusual meeting and marriage also cannot be a coincidence. I was asking God for a proper wife for me in a
prayer called the Secret of Happiness (or Fifteen Prayers of St. Bridget), through the intercession
of St. Joseph, as well as many people were praying for me for the same purpose. God’s response to those prayers
surpassed my wildest dreams!
Isn’t
it striking?
The Power of God is
enormous. I believe that only He could be a director of this what I have experienced and what I have described here. It
outruns our human comprehension, similarly as enormous number of the Old Testament prophecies of Jesus Christ does
(I recommend reading „More Than a
Carpenter” – a book written by Josh McDowell).
Take courage!!! This world is just the beginning
of life. Do not be afraid to regard Jesus as your Lord, to tell Him this, to thank Him for what He has done to you,
to invite Him to your life and heart,
and to ask Him for straightening your ways. He can do this and He will do this but only if we allow Him for that.
I
would like to ask you for passing this testimony along to your friends, to
share it with others. I will be very
grateful for that.
Jesus
Christ is alive and He is truly The Only God and Lord and He has overcome the
world. Hallelujah!!!
Best
regards, God bless you () Marek
Kamiński